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Talking about self-harm

Contents:Introduction
What is self-harm?
How common is self-harm?
Understanding self-harm
Why do people harm themselves?
Some common questions about self-harm
How can I get help?
What can family and friends do to help?
Professional workers
What will the future bring?
Suggestions for reading
Useful addresses
The Internet

Understanding self-harm

Quite often people harm themselves in ways that can be noticed by other people as a way of asking for help at that time. Some other people hide what they do. This can be due to shame, humiliation and fear. The reasons why people self-harm can be difficult for others to understand. They are complex and differ from one person to another.

"For me, cutting is a coping mechanism. It’s not something I’m proud of, but it’s something that gets me by when things get too heavy to deal with. It’s a very stressful experience at the time but it does help me get back in control of myself, albeit with having the embarrassment factor the next day."
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